她们的彷徨,被接住了
文/慧欣

2025年圣诞节前夕,加影大街上的街灯一盏一盏亮起,Mary(化名)带着14岁的女儿,站在陌生的街头。她原本以为,这是一个新的开始。
她辞去了原有的工作,结束了租约,把所有的希望都押在一份“雪隆的高薪工作”上。为了这个机会,她用尽积蓄买了机票,从沙巴来到加影。她想象中的未来,是更稳定的收入,是孩子更好的生活,是终于可以喘一口气的日子。
但现实,在她抵达后瞬间崩塌。所谓的公司,不存在。
那一刻,她没有太多选择,只能拨通一个电话——打给远在沙巴的一位曾帮助过她的志工。这位志工曾在水灾时,成为赈灾志工,帮忙清洗过她的家,也在重建家园时,提供短期经济援助。
电话那头沉默了几秒,然后说:“我帮你找人。”这句话,就像在黑暗里点了一盏灯。
这通求助,最终被转介到7979全人关怀救助网络。在接获消息后,西马的加影信义会7979全人关怀站志工迅速启动紧急接待机制。
志工很快地为Mary准备了一间临时的住宿。那不是豪华的地方,只是一个可以安心放下行李、让母女两人睡得着的空间。Mary那颗一直悬着的心,暂时终于可以放下了。 但她久久无法合眼,因为眼前的难关虽然暂时缓解,未来的生活仍充满未知数。 安顿后的次日,7979全人关怀站的廖永胜牧师与Mary会面,进一步商讨后续安置事宜。 然而,摆在眼前的事实是: 在雪隆,她没有工作技能,身边也没有可长期依靠的亲友、教会或其他支援管道。 于是他们提出一个温和的建议——回家。或许,回到沙巴,回到她比较熟悉的土地,回到仍有亲人和社会支持的地方,会是更合适的选择。
但志工们知道,这不是一个可以“替她决定”的时刻。当被骗、失落、恐惧与羞愧交织在一起,人在这样的处境下,通常难以马上做出清晰的判断。教会没有急着要Mary作出决定,只是说:“妳可以先休息几天,慢慢想清楚。”
教会提供了短期住宿,也从爱心基金中拨出RM100购买生活必需品。有志工送饭菜给母女俩,让她们不用为下一餐焦虑。每一个小小的行动,都没有喧哗,却真实存在地支撑着她们。
与此同时,关怀站志工也预备了后续方案:如果Mary决定返乡,志工将协助向7979申请急难救助金RM1,200作为机票与过渡的支持;如果她选择留下,也会协助转介至政府援助中心,让她不至于完全孤立无援。
随着购物中心播放着熟悉的圣诞音乐,商场挂满闪烁灯饰,街上的人群匆匆来往,空气里充满节日的热闹。而Mary终于做出了决定:回到沙巴。-
在2025年结束以前,她带着女儿,再次踏上那片熟悉的土地。或许,未来仍有许多未知,但至少,她们不再独自面对。
这个圣诞节,没有盛大的礼物,却有一位几乎失去方向的母亲,重新被接住。在最无助的时候,教会为她打开了门;在最彷徨的时候,有人愿意伸出手,有人愿意停下来陪她走一段路。也许,这正是圣诞最真实的意义。
Their Anxious Call Had Been Received
Written by Hui Xin Tang
On Christmas Eve 2025, Kajang’s main street was lit with decorative lighting; Mary (pseudonym) held her 14-year-old daughter’s hand and stood on the unfamiliar street, thinking it was a new beginning.
She quit her previous job and terminated her rent, putting all her hopes on a “High-paid Job in Selangor and Kuala Lumpur”. She used all her savings to buy air tickets from Sabah to Kajang solely for this job opportunity. The future she imagined was a steady income that could afford a better life for her daughter, and also a chance to slow down a bit.
However, all her dreams were shattered when she arrived here. The “company” never existed.
The phone number was no longer working, the address did not exist, and the middleman had disappeared and could not be contacted. When she stood on the main street of Kajang, she realised she was being scammed. There was very little money left in her pocket, and night was approaching. On top of that, her handphone battery was also almost gone.
At this moment, she didn’t have much choice but to make a call to a volunteer in Sabah who had helped her before. The volunteer had previously served in a flood relief mission, helping to clean and rebuild her home while also providing short-term financial assistance.
The person on the other end of the line was silent for a while, then replied: “I’ll find someone.” Those words were like a light in the darkness.
This call for help was later referred to the 7979 Holistic Care Relief Network. When the volunteers of the 7979 Holistic Care Station of Kajang Lutheran Church received this news, they immediately activated an emergency response.
Without further delay, the volunteers very quickly arranged temporary accommodation for Mary and her daughter. It was not luxurious, just a place where they could put down their luggage and rest. She finally found a moment of peace. However, sleep seemed impossible when her mind kept thinking of the uncertain future, even though their immediate needs had been met.
After a few days of resting, Rev. Liow Weng Seng of the 7979 Care Station met Mary to discuss her next steps and other matters. Nevertheless, the reality was that she did not possess the required skills to work in Klang Valley. Moreover, she had no family, relatives, friends, church, or any other long-term support network. They gently advised her to return to Sabah. Going back to familiar surroundings, where her family and support network were, might be the better option.
The volunteers were aware that it was not the right time for them to “decide for her”. In the midst of the emotional turmoil of being scammed, upset, fearful, and ashamed, no one can make a clear decision. Hence, the church did not rush Mary in making the decisions; they gently said: “You can take a few more days to think thoroughly.”
The church provided short-term accommodation and provided RM100 from the church’s care fund for her to buy daily necessities. Their meals were taken care of by the volunteers, so they did not have to worry about their meals. Every little action was done modestly, without fanfare; yet it offered unwavering support.
Simultaneously, the Care Station’s volunteers were preparing follow-up support. If Mary decided to return to Sabah, the volunteers would apply for the 7979 Family Crisis Intervention Aid of RM1,200 to cover their airfare and transition expenses. On the other hand, if Mary decided to remain here, then they would refer her to a government relief centre, so she would not be completely helpless.
As the familiar Christmas carols played at the shopping mall, the decorative lighting shone brightly, busy pedestrians passed by, and the air was filled with a festive atmosphere; Mary decided to go back to Sabah.
At the end of 2025, Mary and her daughter stepped onto the soil of Sabah once again. The future may hold many unknowns, but they no longer have to face it alone.
This Christmas, there were no extravagant gifts; it was just a lost mother who was received by others. In the middle of helplessness, the church opened her door to her. When she was at her most anxious time, someone extended a hand to her; someone was willing to journey with her. This could be the real meaning of Christmas.
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