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大家一起7979 可怜之人必有可恨之处

15 September, 2025
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最近热门的国际新闻之一,是战区加沙的饥荒。有人说这是摆拍的,用以获取国际社会对以色列施压;也有人说这是真实的情况,几十万人因缺粮而营养不良处于饥饿状态中。除了真枪实弹,战争也打心理战。或许,到了真相大白的那一天,很多人会很惊讶;或许,只能寄望公义终将到来的一天。

战争,肯定是残酷的。残酷的真相,却不只限在战争中。
在我们的国家,也许没有发生饥荒,但是却有“粮食不安全”的问题。根据世界粮食计划署的定义,粮食不安全是指无法正常获得安全营养、能保障发育和健康生活的食物。” 

许多贫穷和弱势的家庭,由于收入偏低,再加高涨的生活费,或其它额外的开销,例如医药费等,导致他们无法获取营养均衡的饮食。常常有一餐没一餐的度日,或长期吃同一类的食物,造成健康受损,甚至加剧病情,陷入贫穷和疾病交加的恶性循环中。

“7979吗哪食物银行”每两个月派发价值约RM200的吗哪包,看似杯水车薪,但有杯水总好过没有。有一名志工亲身分享,他所探访的案家告诉他,上一次收到的东西,让她可以省下钱来带她的孙女去配副眼镜;这样孙女可以看清楚老师写在黑板上的字,也可以跟上学校的课业进度。

在我国,当然还有更赤贫的家庭。一份马来文报章报道,有一个单亲家庭,7个孩子,其中15岁的长子必须辍学持家,因为他们有时穷到只能靠白饭果腹,没有其他食物。这不仅仅是发生在一个家庭,从西海岸到东马,大城市小乡镇,有许多家庭虽不至于饿死,却也过着生不如死的日子。

写到这,必有人说,这些穷人之所以会穷,是有原因的。“可怜之人必有可恨之处”。常常听或读到这句话,好像言之有理。但再想想总是觉得哪里不对。固然有些可怜之人是因自作孽,但更多的是,因为不幸的遭遇和莫明的命运。

助人者常常落入2种心理状态:一、认为受助者不够好(可恨);二、认为自己不够好(无力)。这两种心态都会使人难以坚持关爱他人。这种心态的出路,是谦虚(即基督教所说的“与神同行”)不是谁不够好,而是认清事实:我们每一天都需要神的恩典,我们没有人有不可恨之处。

“吗哪”,在《圣经》中,是旷野里每日赐下的食物,象征着神的供应与应许(承诺)。我们之所以可以期许明天,是因为有永恒应许。

可怜之人必有可恨之处,不可怜人的人也必有可恨之处。
让我们期许有一天,可怜之人必有肯去爱之人。

最近热门的国际新闻之一,是战区加沙的饥荒。有人说这是摆拍的,用以获取国际社会对以色列施压;也有人说这是真实的情况,几十万人因缺粮而营养不良处于饥饿状态中。除了真枪实弹,战争也打心理战。或许,到了真相大白的那一天,很多人会很惊讶;或许,只能寄望公义终将到来的一天。

战争,肯定是残酷的。残酷的真相,却不只限在战争中。
在我们的国家,也许没有发生饥荒,但是却有“粮食不安全”的问题。根据世界粮食计划署的定义,粮食不安全是指无法正常获得安全营养、能保障发育和健康生活的食物。” 

许多贫穷和弱势的家庭,由于收入偏低,再加高涨的生活费,或其它额外的开销,例如医药费等,导致他们无法获取营养均衡的饮食。常常有一餐没一餐的度日,或长期吃同一类的食物,造成健康受损,甚至加剧病情,陷入贫穷和疾病交加的恶性循环中。

“7979吗哪食物银行”每两个月派发价值约RM200的吗哪包,看似杯水车薪,但有杯水总好过没有。有一名志工亲身分享,他所探访的案家告诉他,上一次收到的东西,让她可以省下钱来带她的孙女去配副眼镜;这样孙女可以看清楚老师写在黑板上的字,也可以跟上学校的课业进度。

在我国,当然还有更赤贫的家庭。一份马来文报章报道,有一个单亲家庭,7个孩子,其中15岁的长子必须辍学持家,因为他们有时穷到只能靠白饭果腹,没有其他食物。这不仅仅是发生在一个家庭,从西海岸到东马,大城市小乡镇,有许多家庭虽不至于饿死,却也过着生不如死的日子。

写到这,必有人说,这些穷人之所以会穷,是有原因的。“可怜之人必有可恨之处”。常常听或读到这句话,好像言之有理。但再想想总是觉得哪里不对。固然有些可怜之人是因自作孽,但更多的是,因为不幸的遭遇和莫明的命运。

助人者常常落入2种心理状态:一、认为受助者不够好(可恨);二、认为自己不够好(无力)。这两种心态都会使人难以坚持关爱他人。这种心态的出路,是谦虚(即基督教所说的“与神同行”)不是谁不够好,而是认清事实:我们每一天都需要神的恩典,我们没有人有不可恨之处。

“吗哪”,在《圣经》中,是旷野里每日赐下的食物,象征着神的供应与应许(承诺)。我们之所以可以期许明天,是因为有永恒应许。

可怜之人必有可恨之处,不可怜人的人也必有可恨之处。
让我们期许有一天,可怜之人必有肯去爱之人。

Is It True That Every Pitiful Person Must Have Something Detestable About Them?

15 September, 2025
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Lately, one of the international breaking news is the famine in the Gaza war zone. Some people said that it was staged photos which intended to attract the world’s attention to put pressure on Israel; on the other hand, some people think that it was the facts, a few hundred thousand people are experiencing malnutrition due to insufficient food and prolonged hunger. War is not limited to weaponry fighting, it also involves psychological battles. Maybe the truth shall be revealed one day, then everyone will be shocked by it, or we can only hope there will be a day when justice prevails.         

War is definitely cruel; however, the truth about war is not limited to the battlefield. Our country is not experiencing any form of famine, yet we are facing issues relating to “Food Insecurity”. According to the definition given by the World Food Programme, food insecurity means “Under normal circumstances, unable to obtain safe and nutritious food to maintain a healthy growth and life. ”     
Factors such as low income, high living costs, or extra expenses such as medical charges could prevent many poor and underprivileged families from having a balanced and nutritious meal. They are living on unstable meal supplies; having a meal now doesn’t guarantee a meal later in the day. They could also be having the same diet for years, which could cause severe health issues or deterioration of health, and fall into the evil cycle of poverty and illnesses.         

“7979 Manna Food Bank” distributes RM200 worth of Manna Bag every bi-monthly. This act seems like a cup of water over a blazing cartload of firewood, yet a cup of water is better than no water at all. A volunteer shared that during a home visit, the service recipient told him that the Manna Bag we gave her helped her save enough money to buy spectacles for her granddaughter, which helped her to see clearly what was written on the board, hence enabling her to keep up with the class. 
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Of course, we have many poor families that are poorer in our country. A Malay Newspaper revealed that a single-parent family with 7 children, the eldest son of 15 years old, had to quit school to support the family, because they are so poor that sometimes they are down to plain rice for almost every meal, without any dishes. This is not a standalone case; from West Coast Malaysia to East Malaysia, many families do not die of hunger, yet their lives are not far from it.         

Come to this point, some people might say, the poor are so poor because of some inherent reasons. Is it true that every pitiful person must have something detestable about them? It sounds rational when we hear or come across this quotation, yet when we ponder deeper, it feels like something doesn’t sound right. Undeniably, some pitiful people end up poor because they inflicted on themselves, yet the majority of them are victims of unfortunate or fateful incidents.    

Caregivers usually will fall into 2 psychological conditions: Firstly, they perceive that the service recipients are not good enough (they deserve it); secondly, they perceive themselves as not good enough (helpless). These two attitudes can be a stumbling block for one to be a long-term caregiver. To walk out of these attitudes, one must be humble (i.e. in Christian terms, referring to “Walking with God”). It is not about who is not good enough. Let us be clear, everyone needs God’s daily grace, after all, we have our own flaws which deserve punishment.

“Manna” in the Bible is a daily food provision in the wilderness; it symbolises God’s provision and promise (His pledge). We have hopes for tomorrow because we have eternal promises.   

Every pitiful person must have something detestable about them; whereas a person who does not show any form of kindness to others is also despicable. Let us hope that one day, the pitiful person will surely have someone to care for and love them.

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